I have thought a lot about how to love and care for the woman who is now in my life – lessons learned from experience.
For my marriage, it was perhaps too late; but for this relationship, it is not. Mistakes and failures are essential for growth, development and understanding and relationships could be better understood if you have had bad experiences in the past.
Instead of making these mistakes and having to learn for yourself, learn the lessons I learned a little too late.
Here are 8 everyday ways women want to be shown love
1. Consistently make time for her
When you make it a priority in your life, you will save time. When we’re dating, I’ve seen a lot of guys spending a lot of time with the women they like, but not after they’re officially together.
Dedicating time to the woman in your life is just as essential as anything else. Please don’t make it a family affair; give him a moment to relax and have fun with you.
A woman’s sense of importance, her sense of being cared for and loved is heightened when she has time to spend with you. She won’t feel taken for granted if you keep dating and courting her.
2. Show your gratitude
Most women go out of their way to nurture, care for, and serve the people in their lives, but there is a lot of indifference to their efforts.
Even a simple expression of gratitude for all she’s done for you can have a profound impact on her outlook on life.
3. Accept her for who she is
Instead of pointing out her imperfections, praise her for who she is when she’s at her best. To love a woman, you don’t have to change her or wish she was someone else. No need to tell her she’s inadequate or not up to par.
Throughout the ages, society has worked tirelessly to create an “ideal” shape for all women. A woman’s life is dictated by society; she is told what to eat, how she should appear and how she should dress. No need to do anything because of what you see in the news, in the media or in popular culture.
4. Give up trying to change her
Accepting it is a step in the same direction as learning to give up trying to change it. If you want a woman to behave in a specific way, you can’t expect or insist on her doing it.
You cannot change the nature of a woman. Compassion, understanding, and kindness are the most acceptable ways to help a woman achieve her best self.
Instead of trying to make her into someone she’s not, focus on improving yourself to be the best person you can be for her. Work on your development and learn to let go of the need to modify it.
5. Cultivate compassion
Compassion and empathy for what she is going through is essential to loving her.
Compassion involves being able to understand and empathize with what she goes through on a daily basis. Becoming empathetic and forgiving is one of the most important things you can do to show compassion.
What matters is that you don’t always have to be correct. This allows him to carry out his projects as he sees fit.
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To feel empathy, you have to put yourself in their shoes. Compassion is looking at things from your point of view and trying to understand them. Compassion is being there for her or thinking of her as she goes through a difficult time in her life. Compassion can be as simple as making space for her or simply hugging her to relieve her pain and suffering.
6. Listen carefully
For many women, talking is a way to express themselves, share, and even fall in love with another person. This is much more true for women than for men, in my experience.
We can show them our love by listening to them without trying to fix them, assist them or help them out, which is a simple method. Listening without judgment or making suggestions allows others to feel seen and heard.
In our culture, people tend to want to respond, fix something, or give advice in every interaction. Instead of criticizing a woman for being who she is, try to listen to her with empathy so she can share her thoughts and feelings.
7. Be open and vulnerable
When you express your thoughts and emotions, good or bad, with a woman, you make her feel cherished. They want to know about your struggles and difficulties.
They want to be there for you as much as you want them to be there for her. For the woman in your life, it’s an opportunity to soothe, nurture, and adore her.
8. Commit to improving your relationship
The most important thing you can do for her is to be the best version of yourself. Develop your skills and knowledge by learning new things. Eliminate negative behaviors and increase your emotional strength while decreasing your emotional overreactions.
Even though you spend a lot of time working on your personal growth, you should also focus on improving your skills as a romantic partner. Learn how to be a better partner by reading books on how to be a better man, taking courses on how to be a better man, and seeking therapy if you think it will help you overcome negative habits and tendencies in your life.
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You can show her affection in different ways, by making her life a little easier or by anticipating what she might need.
Make a conscious effort to make a difference in her life by doing little things like putting away your clothes or doing the dishes. Say thank you, listen with empathy, and show her where and when you’re meant to be. These little things mean the world.
Sidhharrth S. Kumaar is the founder of NumroVani and a licensed pharmacist turned astronumerologist. For more information, visit its website.